"The most unfair thing about life is the way it ends. It takes up most of your time, and what do you get at the end? A death. I think it should all go backwards. You should die first, to get it out of the way. Then you live in an old age home. You get kicked out when you're too young, then you go to work. You work forty years until you're young enough to enjoy your retirement. You drink, you party, you get ready for high school. You go to grade school, you become a kid, you play, you have no responsibilities, you become a little baby, you go back into the womb, you spend your last nine months floating, then you finish off as an orgasm."
We all think we're going to be great, and we feel a little bit robbed when our expectations aren't met. But sometimes expectations sell us short. Sometimes the expected simply pales in comparison to the unexpected. You've got to wonder why we cling to our expectations because the expected is just what keeps us steady, standing still. The expected is just the beginning. The unexpected is what changes our lives. -- Grey's Anatomy
Don't go looking for love, let it find you. That's why it's called falling. You don't mean to, it just happens.
They called what happened to them "near-death experiances," and they talked about how amazing it was to know what death was like, and still be able to live. I feel like I'm having a near-life experiance, like I used to be alive, and I know what that's like, but now I'm doing somethingelse. I don't want to die or anything, I just feel like I'm not as alive as I used to be.
It's possibility that keeps us all going, not guarantee. That's why you always have to take chances.
Truth is, you scare the shit out of me. You make me feel as if I'm not alone. Yet, I know any minute you have the ability to rip that feeling from me. Truth is, I love you, and that in itself is scary enough.
I know just how it feels to think of the right thing to say too late. -- Robert Frost
If you asked me a year ago, I would have told you what you wanted to hear. Now I know that I can't please everyone, and I'm sorry if that hurt your feelings. I can't make myself unhappy to please you, and I won't try.
And it's been 10 days without you in my reach, and the only time I've touched you is in my sleep. But time has changed nothing at all. You're still the only one that feels like home. I've tried cutting the ropes, tried letting you go, but you're still the only one that feels like home.
I want a trip inside your head, spend the day there, hear the things you haven't said, see what you see. I wanna hear you when you call, do you feel anything at all? I wanna see your thoughts take shape and walk right out.
I don't know where I'm going, but I promise it won't be boring.
It's like once you've been hurt, you're so scared to get attached again, like you have this fear that every person you start to like is going to break your heart.
You will never forget your first love. That's what makes it so special. You love so hard, so deeply, and so intensely because you don't know any different. It's the best thing until it's over. Eventually you love again, but you love differntly. You will love more carefully and more cautiously, continually comparing that perosn to your first love
I believe that two people are connected at the heart. And it doesn't matter what you do, or who you are or where you live. There are no boundaries or barriers if two people are destined to be together.
It's not that I believe everything happens for a reason. It's just that I think that some things are meant to be broken. Imperfect. chaotic. It's the universe's way of providing contrast, you know? there has to be a few holes in the road because that's just how life is.
It happens to everyone as they grow up; you find out who you are and what you want, and then you realize that the people you've known forever don't see things the way you do. And so you keep the memories but find yourself moving on.
I don't have a fear of commitment. I have a fear of abandonment. We all screw things up. I screw things up. Especially with the people I Love. I get needed, I get moody, I get distant, I want to be close, I get confused. I don't understand all of it. But I keep pushing, because I hope in this thing; the universe. There's no way that I'm the only person out there who wants something this bad. If I want it someone else out there must too.
"Do not follow where the path may lead. Go instead where there is no path and leave a trail." - Ralph Waldo Emerson
"At some point, you have to make a decision. Boundaries don't keep other people out. They fence you in. Life is messy. That's how we're made. So, you can waste your lives drawing lines. Or you can live your life crossing them." - Grey's Anatomy
Ok, so I know that this has nothing to do with icons, graphics, quotes, surveys, etc, however I want to mention how much each generation is changing more and more. I work with kids, elementary aged. There is one child in particular who is 7 years old. All the little girls love him. Even some of the girls that are older than him have little crushes on him. It is beyond ridiculous. We even found a note from a 9 year old who wrote him a note apologizing that she did not get to give him his surprise which..get this...was going to be her putting her butt on him..wtf?! And then behind the note to him she wrote a little diary entry on a separate paper that said how much she liked this boy but sometimes he just made her so mad because he was mean to her and she did not like some of the things he would say. Damn. These are not issues 7, 8, and 9 year old girls should be dealing with.. They still have a few years until they should have to deal with guys being jackasses to them. It makes me so mad. When I was that young, of course there were little crushes that people had but it was never taken farther than that. We were actually still "innocent minded". These kids are watching shows like family guy and that 70's show, which are two of my favorite tv shows, but sorry, I would not let my 7 year old daughter be watching it. It just amazes me with what some of these kids come up with.
What was the last pill that you took? Birth Control.
Who was the last person to call you? Briana
Think of your bestfriend/bestfriends, are they virgins? i don't think I should be telling their business.. sorry.
You're currently listening to? commercial
How are you feeling right now? I'm alright
When was the last time you smiled? idk. a little while ago.
Do you like anyone? yea
Who was the first person you talked to today? mom.
What is something you are NOT looking forward to? ugh.long story.
Are you a forgiving person? yea, too forgiving
How late did you stay up last night? 4:45am. damn.
If you could move somewhere else, would you? yes
When was the last time you cried really, really hard? like last week.
What did you do Sunday? in the morning I went to a brunch for my grandfather's birthday and then i think that was it..i think i just chilled at home after that
When is the next time you'll hug someone? tonight probably
What are you doing this coming weekend? working on saturday..sunday. idk
Are you afraid of roller coasters? yea pretty much. i can't go on them anyways cause i have like serious motion sickness.
Do you know any songs that remind you of summer? yes
What were you doing at 7:30 AM? Sleeping
Do you tell your mom everything? not at all
Has anyone ever crawled through your window? Nope.
How did you and your number 2 become friends? we worked over the summer at camp and we were kinda friends, and then the next summer the supervisor put us in our own group so it was just the two of us and 25, 5 year olds and we bonded :)
Did you speak to your mother today? yea
Do you have plans for tomorrow? Yes
Who was the last person in your bedroom? briana
Are you missing someone? yea.
If I looked under your bed, what would I find? shoes, boxes
How do you usually sleep? i move all around
Where were you at 3:02 AM this morning? in my room
Are you someone that worries too much? yea. blah
Do you think some people are crazy for wearing jeans in the summer? No
Is there anybody you wish you could be spending time with right now? Yes
Do you believe that everything happens for a reason? I do
Do you know what you're wearing tomorrow? Not yet
Are you irritated with anyone? Not at the moment.
Is there something you should be doing right now? not really.
How has the week been? good and bad.
Are you slowly drifting away from someone? yea...
What're you looking forward to? hmm..
Do you know anyone who’s pregnant? Yes.
Are you shy? a little bit
Are you currently wanting any body piercings or tattoo? i want another tattoo
Does your phone go off in the middle of the night? sometimes..
Last time you saw fireworks? new years
Are you allergic to anything ? nope
Do you have anything to complain about? don't we all?
Is there someone you will never forget? Yes
Do you hate being alone? sometimes i don't mind being alone
Is there a girl that knows everything or mostly everything about you? Yes.
Can you live a day without TV and computer? yea
Do you sleep on a certain side of the bed? no
Do you have anything on your mind at this moment? yes